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What it takes to shop at The Domain (and other places like it) in 2 words

Be Brave


I recently took a little trip to The Domain by myself, just to walk around a bit, the last time I walked around there was more than 5 years ago. I had no particular objective other than to see what it looked like after so many years and to check out the Whole Foods at The Domain. But first I started with Neiman Marcus.

If you are like me, "Be brave"  are the two words worth remembering. I had to keep repeating them to myself because:
  1. You have to be brave enough enter the stores. I went into one, picked up a cashmere sweater for about $500 then moved on to a pants, $1000 - it looked like regular linen pants to me.
  2. You have to be brave enough to ask the price of any item you care to know, even if out of idle curiosity.
  3. Be brave enough to walk out of the store without buying anything.
  4. Be brave, despite not wearing  fancy clothes or shoes. I went in with my ratty jeans and old t-shirt.
 At the end of the day, they probably get a lot of window shoppers, so it is not such a big deal, but it was a lot of fun to imagine what I would get if I could shop there. Here I am trying on some too big and too expensive aviators.


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